Take your time to get to know him before you start being all about him and his needs.
It’s fine to be intrigued — like you’re on the verge of being interested — but don’t let yourself get totally sold too fast.
When your happiness is rooted in all sorts of things, not just him, you will never have to watch what you say or do for fear of coming off as needy because you will never be needy.By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.And do not cancel any of these fun, meaningful activities just because he calls and wants to see you.A woman would gladly give anything to a man who is "in control".to be with a man who knows his way around women: a man who knows how to treat a lady, who knows exactly what to say and do... Unfortunately, the "stuff" they normally do to ‘convince’ a younger woman to like him back actually end up pushing her further away...When it comes to dating, sometimes we try too hard because we really like the person and we don’t want them to slip from our grasp. It’s not a crime, and it’s not something to be ashamed of – trying hard means you’re passionate! If you're on the lookout for your next partner everywhere you go... Searching this hard for someone is never going to give you good results.