Caught my boyfriend on a dating website

From your question, I can tell that you two were together in the past.

There was a period during which you two broke up, and now you are back together.

I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…

There are some questions that I want you to ask yourself before you decide whether or not you say anything to your boyfriend: Spend some time and figure out why you are in this relationship, what you want out of the relationship, and how you feel about this specific situation before you talk to your boyfriend.

I know I am being sneaky/snoopy by checking up on him to see how often her goes on the site (and he goes on often! It’s not like I’d call this guy my boyfriend already, I know it’s still early… Author’s note: I have expanded the content of this article since it’s original post (as I do from time to time).

This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.

I want to share with you that although your question is very short, I get a sense that you do not trust your boyfriend.

I believe that trust is the main ingredient for a healthy relationship, and without it, the relationship becomes troublesome and both of the partners suffer.

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