Married people have the best dating advice since they have already done it!My goal is to simply pass on, from one teen to another, some thoughts I have developed from my observations, personal experience, and advice from others.My answers have been consistent: I tell each of these people to ignore a lot of what they’ve heard about PCC, even from my own blog. When I attended, PCC had no accreditation, and they were extremely proud of that fact.They had no interest in accreditation, because they refused to be held accountable by any outside body that could bully them into giving up their “standards.” This meant that no student could get FAFSA, and many other places that offer student financial aid wouldn’t qualify you.It also meant that no one qualified for educational tax credits. PCC is technically accredited now, but by the Transnational Association of Christian Colleges and Schools.If you look at the list of colleges that they’ve accredited, it becomes obvious fairly quickly that TRACS is a joke.So here goes: Your quality and purpose of life is not determined by whether or not you date or get married.
This is most obvious in that it is absolutely forbidden for students to either hold any form of public demonstration or create or sign a petition.“My daughter was interested in this nice Christian boy, but he strung her along for a year and a half.The next one did too.” Or, “Jeremy acted like they were friends but she told me later that they were hooking up on the side.” With that kind of dismal dating culture at play, let’s consider the options: First, there’s “Duggar Dating.” Duggar dating is the modern-day form of arranged marriages.They’re a rubber-stamping agency for conservative and fundamentalist Christian colleges that want to say they’re “accredited” but still go right on with business as usual.I know some of the people who go around “evaluating” these institutions for TRACS, and, trust me, they’re all in bed together. They told PCC that forbidding their students from using Facebook and Twitter was a bit overboard.Nicole Unice is the author of â Brave Enough: Getting Over our Fears, Flaws and Failures to Live Bold and Free.â (Tyndale, 2015) and travels frequently enough to almost feel like she can fly. Read More A wise man once told me that there were only two outcomes for dating relationships: getting married or breaking up.