I can’t even commit to hanging shelves” ba-dump-bump joke.
He has to want to be with you and enjoy your company and feel pretty fucking awesome around you. When we were together, I made him feel like a million bucks. Six months later, he spends most evenings with me, cooks me dinner, and invited me to his best friend’s wedding (which is three months away). But the decision to be committed to a relationship is a choice you keep making in the present, which is where you always are.The thing to remember about casual dating is that is basically means that you’re seeing each other regularly or semi-regularly, sleeping together, but there is no expressed exclusivity or long term commitment.It’s more like Indefinite Dating than Casual Dating.(LTK): What happens after two people decide they want to spend time together in a dating context?(LG): Stage two is the romantic stage and usually lasts for two to three months.So I’m trying to date him while I continue to look for/try to date other men I like.