They often have long lists of their requirements for a date or a mate.
They often are the ones who stay home on Saturday nights, while their friends who are coupled up are snuggling by the fireplace talking about their future.
This after we both realized there was no attraction on either side.
On a related side note, I introduced her to a really good friend and they've just started talking about settling down together.
Was the breakup you initiated with your college boyfriend slow and painful?
Does that mean that I can't admire and want that trait in someone else?The conversation started out with, “I haven’t had a date in three years due to work commitments,” from an attractive attorney I met with. I guess I really need your help.” I listened to her pain about possibly going through another New Year’s Eve or Valentine’s Day as a single woman with a big birthday around the corner.She added, “I joined an online dating site one night, but I haven’t logged on since. With the energy she puts into her successful career, there was absolutely no balance in her love life.Pardon me whilst I admit to punching the air and being quasi-jealous. In this conversation, she asked me rather pointedly, "what is it that you just can't find?" She went on to note that she finds it hard to believe that someone (me) who is fit, conversant and successful is still single without there being some rudimentary issue with them. We all have from time to time, and let me emphatically state that I find the phrase 'too picky' wrought with more holes than an M. Let's talk about what we're saying when we say that someone is too picky. And, like a pre-2K BSB concert, they are supposed to be fun.Who says being particular about your lovers is a bad thing?