So instead of spending your time reading "Top Ten Best Ways Every Girl Must Kiss Or Else You Will Die Alone," try spending some time getting to know and feel comfortable with the person you’re kissing, and practicing speaking up if you want things to change.
OK — your 13-year-old daughter comes home from school and dreamily announces that she’s in love with the hottest guy in her grade.
My goal is to simply pass on, from one teen to another, some thoughts I have developed from my observations, personal experience, and advice from others.So here goes: Your quality and purpose of life is not determined by whether or not you date or get married.Always pursue God and health (spiritual, emotional, and physical) and you will be fine.With kissing, as with all sexual activities, the key is to pay attention to your partner, try different ways of exploring each other’s bodies, and let someone know if you want things to be different. You are not a fish and your partner’s face is not fish food. If you're kissing someone and you want to grab their butt or take off your shirt, ask them,“Can I grab your butt? That’s what it can feel like to be surprised with a kiss.Since there are so many kissing myths out there, today I’m busting some of my least favorites. OK, I know I said there were no hard-and-fast rules on what makes a good kisser and that everyone is different. BUT if there were going to be one rule it would be this — don’t go zero to full tongue! Tongues can be a good thing but take it easy; try a little bit at a time before you go shoving the whole thing in your partner’s mouth. Unless you are a psychic (in which case, congratulations! There will probably be no violin music or explosions when your first kiss happens. (If your noses are smushing together, just tilt your head to one side. Kiss away.) Now of course if you're totally hating kissing someone by all means don't keep doing it!There are so many different ways to use your lips and tongue, you can kiss other parts of their face, change the speed, you could put your hands on their waist or in their hair — explore all of that! ) you actually can’t just guess the right moment to kiss someone. But sexual activity is all about learning what you each like.